By Calvin Antonetty
Hi Everyone!
It’s me Calvin, and I hope all is well up north! Things
are great down here in good old Tijuana!! Earlier in the week I was asked by
Leslie and Josh to conduct a little mini interview with the family that my
group (TEAM ORAAAAANNNGEEE!!!!!) is building a house for (the house is looking
pristine by the way). So I casually asked questions to the man of the family
and remembered/translated his Spanish responses so that all of you lovely
people at home can get an idea of the kind of people we are serving this week.
So first of all, there are four brothers who were all
born in Guerrero, Mexico close to Acapulco. Acapulco is a touristy area by the
beach that has a lot of money flowing through the rich and no money or real
jobs for the poor. Guerrero is apparently much worse than Tijuana. He described
Guerrero as an outskirt of a beautiful place that is engulfed in drugs and gang
violence. Now that you have a background of some of the places, here is the
background of this amazing family.
The four brothers were born into a very poor family in
Guerrero. They lived there their whole life until about five years ago when
they all decided to move to Tijuana. The man of our household is Adrian
Soto-Ortiz. He is a shorter, stubby, serious-looking man with a very tender
heart. His best friend growing up was a girl named Maria Isabel
Gomez-Martinez—who eventually became his wife (AWWWW!). They have four
beautiful children. The oldest is an adorable and stubby little boy named
Adrian Soto-Gomez (9 years old), next came the very thin and intellectual Angel
Soto-Gomez (7 years old), after came Fernando Soto-Gomez (5 years old) who has
succeeded in capturing everyone’s hearts with his constant tripping over
everything and his funny little personality, and the youngest is an adorable girl
who looks a lot like a mix between “Boo” from the movie Monsters Inc and that
baby from Ice Age and her name is Elitzabel Soto-Gomez (1 years old).
Adrian was making $4-5/day in Guerrero working from 4:00am
til about 6:00-8:00pm. Rent for the apartment they used to live in was
$1000/month. His wife was obviously working as well. As they kept having kids,
they had to find other kinds of jobs, skip meals, and help Adrian Jr. with
school. So, with the birth of Angel, they moved to Tijuana with the three other
brothers and their families and lived in one house all together.
There is a local school close to the houses we are
building that their kiddos will be attending on the 27th of
September. The family goes to the central Cathedral in Tijuana. And now Adrian
works at an Apartment complex doing random fix ups throughout the complex
(which would explain why he is so good at all this construction stuff!).
Sometimes he travels to other places to sell good in markets and tourist spots.
He told me that he can’t describe how grateful he is to have these houses that
himself and his brothers are getting. He said that they moved out of Guerrero
and into Tijuana for a new beginning and a safe environment for their kids and
that now that they have these homes, everything will be easier. The money that
goes to rent will now go to food and clothes. The time spent working will now
be spent loving their kids. He said he has big dreams and hopes for his
children and that every decision he and his wife have made have been for their
kids - and Sammamish Presbyterian Church and Doxa has helped in ways that WE
can’t even comprehend. I’ve known him for a week, and I love him and his family
so much. This trip is amazing, thank you SPC and thank you Doxa.
Much Love,
Calvin Antonetty